Sorry I have not been able to find out more about the situation that you were talking about, neither official remembers a situation like you described.   
Sometimes officials send a kid off the court and tell the coach he needs to cool down for a minute or two instead of assessing a technical foul? could this have been that situation, I am not sure.  Again, officials have enough to worry about without keeping track of fouls on each player in the game, so I will make sure they know not to do this. 

I can assure you that the officials calling your 7th grade rec basketball game are not their to cheat you though so I am not sure what your suspicions are about officials?